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Dear Girlfriend,
My bf had an affair after 13 uyrs we seperated. For about 6 months we r working on fIixing it but he is always checking my phone mad cuz I go to the stores he thinks I'm gOing to pay him back how do I stop this its driviing me insane
Does he have cause for concern? Are you the type that seeks revenge? Lots of people are.
If this is not you he is in projection. Meaning he is projecting his feelings of fear, guilt, and recrimination onto you. I would have to say to him this is his problem and although you can empathize with his feelings you can not make his guilt about his actions go away by declaring your whereabouts every minute of every day.
His fear is not about you and will not be resolved by you.
Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend, How do i deal with another women in a relations
Depends on the relationship.
Did he or she say they are in a committed relationship with you? Or are you assuming you are in a committed relationship? In which case you need to be committed for committing to an imaginary one-sided commitment.
If he or she has said they are not ready for a monogamous relationship and they intend to see other men or women as the case may be, then you have a choice enjoy the time you do see them or say this doesn’t work for you.
However, if they have professed their commitment and there is another woman in the picture wake up they are not in a committed relationship and you are fooling yourself believing the problem is the other woman.
Girlfriend
My man takes time 2 call me or even see me wats the problem? Me or him
Ivy
Have you asked him?
Assuming you have asked him and he doesn’t have a reasonable response such as he works extremely long hours and is just bottomed out at the end of the day then I would say he has a control issue.
He wants to stay in control of the relationship. Most control issues that I have seen are caused by fear. Fear of getting hurt, being left, etc.
Whatever the problem you have to independently figure out if it works for you because no matter what the cause it may not fit your criteria of a relationship.
If this is repetitive pattern in your life, and you find yourself in the same kind of relationship over and over again with a man who has control issues, then the issue is you - not the man. You are attracting a man who has control issues because some part of you wants to. Change what you are attracting by changing your mojo.
Buy my download Source Code and listen to it for 28 days then see what happens to the relationship.
Girlfriend
Whats the year 2013 hold for me in Would get a car of My Dream ths year**
Avia
You can but it is my suggestion that you wait until the end of the year. Your finances feel much more secure after September 2013. However please take care and secure several months of reserve because you tend to go in and out of financial security for the next 24 to 36 months. After that smooth sailing for the next 5 to 7 years, then only minor problems, nothing like the past 8 months.
Please note again I do not have any resource to connect with except your question. I usually connect to the person's energy through their voice. So you are going to have to let me know how I do in the comments below.
Girlfriend
** Please note we copy paste the questions we recieve with no editing.
Dear Girlfriend, Will I find my soulmat and how soon
Katrina
The problem with meeting your soul mate is you already have. Anyone you have had a relationship with is usually someone you have been with before. The question you have to ask is what have you been attracting and is it what you want. If it is not what you want, change the magnet, which is you.
One of the best ways to do this is hypnosis - specifically mine.
Buy the download called Source Code. Use it for 28 days then back it up with Love Potion, again 28 days.
You will get what you consciously desire instead of what you are subconsciously programmed to receive, which is what you have been getting.
Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend, When will be my next relationship?
Mohamed
May.
But I am not saying it is a good one or a bad one because that depends on you. I will say take control of what you attract by taking control of your self talk - the internal dialogue that determines what you think you deserve.
Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend, Will Find a good job ? Will my ex and i get back?
As a psychic I usually connect to the information through a conversation. So when I say I am winging it with just answering the question I mean it. So let me know in the comments how this turns out. And remember, everyone has free will and things can change. This is a good thing because you have the right and ability to change your mind anytime you want as well. So while I may see something happening, you have the right to change that at will.
The first thing that comes to mind on the job is June 1st or 2nd 2013. Something early in the month.
The second thing on the "ex". I don't think it is about whether you get back together or not, I think it is about whether it would work and to that I say.
Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall,
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.
All the king's horses and all the king's men
Couldn't put Humpty together again.
Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend, What would you say to a girl having sex for the first time?
If this is about having sex for the first time I would say that sex with a mutually loving, respectful, fun, monogamous partner, that has the same value system as yourself can be life altering.
Anything else just ain't worth it.
If the first time you come together, satisfy each other in the moment and you both go your own way, sure enough you will start second guessing what it was all about. Did he or she think you are special or did you mean nothing at all?
It goes on and on.
Sooner or later empty sex leaves you feeling empty. It might be fun for awhile but it will not satisfy in the long run. You will either start hating yourself or the other person for using you. This can result in you becoming cold hearted and continuing the unsatisfying behavior as punishment of either yourself or other.
You deserve a mind blowing experience with someone who has the same desire to please you as you do them.
Until then that is why God put our parts in an easy to reach place. Have a good time and dream of a partner that you can share your mind, body and soul with.
You deserve the best - create it. Anything less buy a dildo.
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If a guy has a woman that he lets into his place and he's got another woman that he's been eating dinner with and she leaves and the other woman that he let in stays the night what does that mean?
If he is sleeping with one and having dinner with another I would have to say there is one too many in this relationship.
My thoughts are eat and sleep with one or be friends with two but don’t mix and match.
Are you dinner girl or stay the night girl? Answer in the comments if you'd like.
Girlfriend
