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Girlfriend! - Ep 06 - Should I Stay or...?

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Today's Question of the Day - "Should I stay or should I go?"

And later in our Building Blocks for Better Relationships- "Sleeping Beauty and Superman" living beyond the fantasy archetype and moving to reality in a relationship.

 

Highlights from Segment 1

Significant life change is not the best time to make the "Should I stay or Should I go" decision
The Question shouldn't be out of desperation
One should be in Curiosity about of the other person or situation
If you're not in Curiosity, then you may stay or go around an "illusion" of a relationship.
Make sure you're not leaving a "fantasy" for another "fantasy."
"It's not about perfection, it's about are we going in the same direction?" 11:00
Do you share the same "Personal Intent Values?"
It's about "Positve Regard and Mutual Develpment"

Highlights from Segment 2 starting at 13:30

Self Responsibiity is about Self Power
In Studio Guest - Vladmir!
Love is free, Love is freedom, Love is the right to choose
Where is handcuffs have to do with Love? When was anybody enslaved and Loved?
Transactional Relationships - If I do X, she'll do Y.
Women do it all the time, using sex as part of transaction.
Love is freedom, everything else is a transaction
Jon askes Vladamir if he's been through this before? Amazing insights @ 21:00!!
Another helpful tool in relationships - a Values Assessment
Safe places bring wonderufl things in people. - @26;30

Highlights from Building Blocks - "Sleeping Beauty and Superman."

Story archetypes in society impact our relationships
Putting attributes on a person, but discarding the actual person
What is Love if you have to change someone?
The story of M, who used the story archetype to wake her ownself up! @ 29:00
Cynthia quotes Shakespeare - To thine ownself be true... @33:00
FRESH BAKED FORTUNE COOKIE - @ 33:25 Selfish is giving without being true to oneself, because what you give is in expectation!

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